Acting is a venture

We undertake all sorts of ventures in our lives. When you or your child decides to become a professional actor, it is nothing less than a "venture".
The definition of venture (as a verb) is, "to dare to do something or go somewhere that may be dangerous or unpleasant."
I love applying this definition to so many parts of my life and our family life. Acting can be exciting, glamorous and incredibly rewarding. Acting also demands guts and the desire to take risks.

A day in the life of an actor involves combating nerves, putting herself out there, practicing patience and accepting rejection. Repeat. Repeat.
It's really quite like a mathematical equation: hard work+waiting x several times= success!

No matter how often my kids have worked on set or in studio, they still come up against some nerves now and again. It may be that they're about to audition for a well known casting director or that they have to sing in studio that day.
To combat nerves and help my kiddos feel their best, I follow some advice from a few of the awesome coaches we've worked with.
I make certain that they have had a good meal prior to the big moment. Right before they "go in" I might give them a bit of chocolate or a bite of a granola bar. A (comfortably) full belly and a bit of sugar go a long way with performing children.
I try to be sure that we don't discuss anything "big" before auditions or performances. It's never a good idea to absentmindedly say, "Oh by the way, turns out Johnny can't spend the night with us tonight", as you drive to the audition or job site.
I joke with my kids. Humor keeps things light. The more Mom fusses with the child's hair, offers tips and reminders, etc... the higher the child's anxiety.
Acting is a big deal to my kids. It's hard work. But since they are KIDS, it should still be fun. It's my job to foster that adventurous yet fun environment.

Acting is a venture, and it's a marvelous way for kids to learn to approach life!
I hope to teach my children that having a family is a venture, as is planning an international trip or making a move. These life events all require hard work and patience and the understanding that it might not go the way we planned. Any venture is frought with risk. Isn't that what makes it exciting?

Do you have any fun tips you've learned along the way (in acting or in any venture) to help kids feel prepared, patient and/or confident?